Got this idea from one of Dribbler's off topic spectacular posts on Bruce and his mexican midgets.
Men watch porn and are not afraid to admit it. They'll brag about the movie they watched last Thursday night to their friends. Guys in my view are very rare to tell their friends what they do in the bedroom with their girlfriends (unless you b#####ds all lie to us!!)
Women tell everything to their best friends. How their man seduces them, and yes - if he was any good or not. (Personally, I never comment on performance - if it was bad for me (never has been!) then I was equally as bad - a man likes to know you're enjoying yourself and you're just cheating yourself if you fake it.) We never tell our friends, "Guess what? Watched this cracking porn film...."
I think Pornography - as long as its not harming anybody or anything and its all completely legal - is healthy within reason. Teenage boys with their magazines, guys watching it when their girls are out for the evening, couples enjoying it together. Women say "Oh these girls are exploited." No, they're not. They know what they are doing. Most will say they enjoy their job. If they didn't want to be there, they wouldn't be.
I wont lie. I have watched a few. My boyfriend knows. Its curiosity more than anything. If my boyfriend chooses to watch, then by all intents and purposes he's a healthy normal male. I am now secure enough to know that he loves me, he is with me for that reason, and he still finds me attractive.
But why do women never admit to having watched.... shock/horror - a porn film? I love to see the reactions of my friends. "I watched TripleX hot stuff with Jenna Jameson in the weekend, how was yours." Its hilarious. Even if I didn't watch it, its so funny to see their faces.