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Sexy? Yes, Yes, Yes!

Posted by Kopite Girl , 15 November 2009 · 42 views

Hi.

Sexiness.

What is it? Is it a state of mind? Is it the state of anothers? Is it confidence? The way you carry yourself? Interaction? Is it the deliberate act to make oneself more appealing to a potential mate?    
  
A good friend of mine recently gave me the best compliment another female could give. She told me [yeah, me like WTF!] that I was effortlessly sexy. Kind of stumped me for a bit. I still have no idea why she said it.

I guess since the stuff I've gone through, and came out of its made me question a lot of things. I was inquisitive before. But I love learning and taking others views on board to learn from them too.

Since 07, my body has been put through the mill and back. But you know something? I love my body, my looks and yeah, I may seem arrogant but I've earned the right to be. I've a ****ing great personality and at the moment I'm really happy in myself. I think maybe thats why I get along with a lot of people, and maybe why my friend said that to me.

Sexy in my opinion is confidence mixed with humour and a touch of arrogance. If you don't love yourself, who else will?
  
So. Comments please. Do YOU think YOU are sexy? What do you REALLY think of yourself?




Since the sex change I don't know what to think of myself. At least my Grandad thinks I'm sexy.
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Kopite Girl
Nov 15 2009 02:57 PM
So. Which one are you? Roy or Hayley?
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Neither. The operation didn't go particularly well. I'm going to try and get a refund from the surgery, or at the very least root through their bin bags and see if anything is retrievable.
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Kopite Girl
Nov 15 2009 07:30 PM
:lol:

If you do find anything, double check its not my brain. Seems to have wandered off somewhere.

It'll answer to the words tuxedo, Jose Mourinho, or knobjockey. Warning signs its mine could be its size. Very small. Like a pea!
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When you root through the bin bags, don't be afraid to 'trade up'.

To say that I am anything less than the sexiest man alive would be an insult to my wife.
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I happened to realize during the years to be confident in what I've got, and well, if someone does not appreciate it, then it doesn't deserve it - doesn't happen very often though *lol*. [/modesty]
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Well said Mike :D

I'm not sexy yet, I'm too small for that, I feel like a little kid still :D But I definitely must be the happiest person on the face of earth :D And I look damn good :P
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Jenson_Rules
Nov 16 2009 08:41 AM
I'm in no way perfect, but I'm certainly good looking and I'm not ashamed to say it! I used to be fat as hell, and lost a lot of weight, and with that came confidence, and yeah, I am somewhat arrogant now. I think sexiness is difficult to determine but I would say confidence, c#ckiness and good looks are what makes a guy sexy to me. I also think if you can't love yourself then you will always be insecure, and that is a BIG TURN OFF.
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Argento Reloaded
Nov 16 2009 03:19 PM
I think sexiness is a complex matter. Nevertheles what you think is sexy maybe is boring or arrogant or whatever to others. So the secret is to be sexy and seduce others you find sexy too. And when it works is fantastic!!
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Kopite Girl
Nov 17 2009 03:33 PM
Very well said Ben. I like that.

@Kati & Tanita - shake what your mama gave you girls. Loving the confidence from both. Its as a very dear person said to me - its infectious.

Mike, your wife would be proud, fella. She gets to step out with you everyday.

Argento knows he's sexy and he carries it well. Really love the responses from you guys - love the fact that you lot have it sussed. Great stuff.
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