How Much More?
I guess things are not really brilliant at the moment. Yet again, I'm left with a broken heart. I found out yesterday my (now ex) bloke had cheated and without going into too much detail, I'm single. Which isn't a bad thing. I just thought the man I wanted to marry felt the same, but obviously not.
I know there's plenty more fish in the sea. I'm not swearing off men. I don't hate them as most of you (like us girls) are a good bunch. I know I should take time out and try to enjoy my life.
How can I heal? Which brings me to the next point. Most guys when cheated on, go and get laid as many times as possible. What does a girl do? Sit in her room sobbing? Thats not me. I've done my tears. He's not worth any more.
I don't want to be labelled as promiscuous or a slut, so I'm not going for the boy option either. Besides, I've never had a one-night stand in my life. Yeah, I'll be honest, I want fun, just not a relationship. Is that a possibility? Do things like that really happen? I don't know.
Maybe you boys could give your views. And ladies. How would you deal?
And no. I didn't hit him, chop his balls off, smash his car up or cut up his clothes. I've more self-respect than that. I don't want to be like that. I believe if you truly want revenge its best served cold. But I'm not seeking revenge. Wasted enough time and energy on him. I'm seeking me instead this time.
I know I've a couple of really good mates on here I'd like to say thanks to. You know who you are.
As for me. I'm pretty resilient. Resourceful when I need be. I'm sure I'll be fine in time.
Tell me about your heartbreak. How did you get through it?
Edit: after being my best friend's best man, its reinforced my belief in love a little. Here's a silly pic of me busting a move on the dancefloor. I had to take the giant red sash I was wearing off as It got caught in a door twice...